The most common statement one says to a friend who has helped you in times of need is “I wish I get an opportunity to repay, or I will be there for you” …. I have a huge problem with that, because it basically means the other person will get into trouble, only then could you be “there” for him or her 🙂 so I don’t want to be there for anyone, because it means all my friends and everyone else is fine and don’t need me !!!
Extend it to the “do gooders”… The big NGO industry, or the charity market. If we lived in a better world, there would be no need for charity. The necessity of charity is actually indicative of a world order that is wrong 🙁